We Grew Up Needing Alcohol to Have Fun

Growing up, many of us were told that alcohol was a necessary part of having a good time. Whether it was at a party, a barbecue, or just hanging out with friends, the presence of alcohol seemed to be a given. It was often seen as a social lubricant, helping to ease social awkwardness and inhibitions. But as we get older and perhaps more experienced with the effects of alcohol, we may start to question this notion. Is it really necessary to have alcohol in order to have a good time?

A guy drinking a beer

The Pressure to Drink

For many of us, the pressure to drink alcohol starts at a young age. We may see our parents and other adults drinking at social events and assume that it is a normal and expected part of adult life. As we get older and start attending parties and other social gatherings, we may feel pressure to drink in order to fit in or be seen as “cool.” This pressure can come from our peers, as well as from cultural messages about what it means to be an adult.

The problem with this pressure to drink is that it can lead to harmful behaviors. Some people may feel pressure to drink more than they are comfortable with in order to fit in, which can lead to binge drinking and increased risk of alcohol-related problems. Additionally, the pressure to drink can make it difficult for people who choose not to drink, or who cannot drink due to health reasons, to feel included and a part of the social scene.

The Link Between Alcohol and Fun

So why do we seem to associate alcohol with having a good time? Part of the reason may be that alcohol can have a temporary relaxing and euphoric effect, which can make social situations feel more enjoyable. However, it’s important to recognize that this effect is not necessary for having a good time. There are plenty of ways to have fun and socialize without relying on alcohol.

Additionally, the link between alcohol and fun may be reinforced by advertising and media portrayals of alcohol as a central component of social events and gatherings. It’s important to recognize that these portrayals are often not realistic and can create unrealistic expectations about the role of alcohol in social situations.

Alternatives to Alcohol

Girls drinking wineSo what can we do if we want to have a good time without relying on alcohol? Here are a few alternatives:

  • Engage in activities that don’t revolve around alcohol. Whether it’s playing sports, going to a concert, or just hanging out with friends, there are many ways to have fun that don’t involve alcohol.

  • Host sober events. If you’re planning a party or other social gathering, consider offering non-alcoholic options and making it clear that sober guests are welcome.

  • Seek out social support. If you’re feeling isolated or unsure about how to have a good time without alcohol, consider seeking out a support group or talking to a therapist. They can help you develop strategies for socializing and having fun without alcohol.

While alcohol may have been a central part of our social lives growing up, it is important to recognize that it is not necessary for having a good time. By seeking out alternative ways to socialize and finding supportive communities, we can learn to have fun and enjoy ourselves without relying on alcohol.

Remember that if you want to go out without alcohol and your friends pressure you, they aren’t really friends, similarly, if you don’t enjoy going out without alcohol then alcohol is just dressing up shit nights as good ones, and you won’t be missing anything by staying away.
If you are struggling and think you need help contact AA. If you want to talk about making some changes in you life then get in contact.

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